Today was Elliot’s birthday – his first one as a Daddy. I’m sure I don’t ever say this often enough, but Elliot is a wonderful husband and father. He is absolutely one of the kindest people I know, and it is clear to everyone how much he adores Micah. We always manage to have fun together, and I am so glad to be sharing my life with him!
Unfortunately, I think today was a bit of a disappointment, though – it was an entirely underwhelming birthday. A lot of that was my fault – it has been crazy around here, so I did not plan anything really big or special for today. I was having a hard time coming up with a gift idea, so I finally just asked him what he wanted and told him I’ll order it later this week. I’ve been racking my brains trying to think of a good idea, and he always goes so far out for me, and I feel awful. I was toying with taking him out to dinner tonight just the three of us, but we decided to reschedule family dinner for my mom’s birthday (and Elliot’s) to tonight. So, we braved horrible rush hour traffic to meet my parents, Jen, Jeremy, Paige and Peyton halfway in Columbia at the Olive Garden. Fancy dinner, right? We needed a good family restaurant, so it really was perfect. Micah enjoyed breadsticks, pasta, minestrone soup and pizza. I love watching him eat real food! The girls were adorable, and we had a fun night.
I think Elliot also got a bit short-changed on the cake. I had grand intentions of making him a Bugs Bunny cake this year, but with my edible image printer broken, I just don’t seem to have the bandwidth to freehand the bunny. Since we were also sharing the celebration with my mom, Elliot didn’t even get his own cake – it was a joint cake with my mom! (I guess my mom was short-changed, too – she had to share the cake with Elliot!) I just made a very simple cake – a delicious chocolate truffle cake decorated simply with buttercream icing and chocolate icing. I made some pretty fondant stars on wire and had them spraying out from the cake. It tasted yummy.
In better news, we do have a fun night planned for date night – we are going to a nice Indian restaurant for dinner, and we’ll wander around for dessert and enjoy the beautiful weather. Perhaps we’ll also grab a movie if there is time. I did come up with one good idea that did not exactly pan out as I had hoped. We’ve been wanting to go eat at Volt (for those of you who are watching Top Chef, it is Bryan Voltaggio’s place), so I called and made reservations. Unfortunately, the first available Thursday night reservations were not until October 29, so I took those and plan to take Elliot to part two of his birthday celebration there. When I mentioned this to Elliot, he said he’d rather go in November and celebrate our anniversary there, so perhaps my fun birthday surprise will become an anniversary gift instead.
In Micah news, we have entered the world of diaper acrobatics. Trying to change Micah’s diaper is a major undertaking. He flips over, climbs up the walls, stands – pretty much anything to make diapering impossible. Half of the time, we diaper him while he is standing! The diapers are never on properly, and it is a constant struggle while he complains loudly and fights us. We’ve tried toys (for some reason, he seems to enjoy playing with the thermometer the most), but those no longer seem to be holding his interest. I think I’m ready for potty training!
Elliot says
Please understand – Uneventful birthdays are not bad birthdays, and trust me, I know bad birthdays:
21st- mugged @ gunpoint
23rd- Stood up
24th- Dumped
30th- beginning of the end of 1st marriage
Compared to those- this was an amazing birthday!